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It was a rainy night in the city. Finally getting out of our normal routine, it was wet... a good sign for tonight's sexy activities. Purple is a seductive color. From my nails to my feet, the deep purple ruled. Red lips pursed as I sip cognac. At the bar where people revealed secrets... there's a lil game my lover and I play. Our audience unknown to them yet a part of this cast of SEXY STRANGER... have you played this game?

A warm breath glides across my open back, a hand touches me softly... lover is here. He takes a seat beside me, motioning for the bartendar to fix 'what the lady is having'. Coy is the emotions of me, daring not to end this game too soon. Our table is ready. Oh how he is so attentive, asking things about me,he hasn't asked in a long time. Yes we are playing the game. I flirt with my eyes, my hands caress his hands as strangers our audience suspicions are aroused as this looks more than dinner between two strangers. There is an Oscar with our name on it. Acceptance speeches will be in inaudible tones of our passions in 5, 4, 3, 2. Lover and I added spice to our groove thang for normal love moments won't always do... 4WE.
Tonight we make magic... he and I are...DELICIOUS.

-71 Pages December 2011

Fetish! We all have at least one but not readily honest enough to admit that we do. COULD THAT BE YOU? Some love the danger, the risk type of festishes. Others like the romantic kind that does no harm or bring pain. Then you have the fetishes that are between hardcore and softcore. Immediately when the word FETISH is brough up, some people think it is all about the kink, the sex. Untrue.
Sexual fetishism is the aroused moment an individual feels from an object or a situation. Do you embrace your fetish or do you avoid it at all cost? Could it be the arousal of candle wax dripping on your body, foot fetish, clothing fetish?
Whatever doesn't bring you into harm of yourself or others, should be approached with caution as to not consume you of rational thinking. Many relationships thrive from the fetish longing being fulfilled. Whatever you do and whomever you do it with, make sure it is consensual with both involved or one come out of the experience without negatives attached. Here's to honesty and exploration.

Some people give their hearts with WILD ABANDON... Others not so much. It is the way of the world, the uniqueness and we all are better for it. Throw caution to the win... yes it is necessary. Observing the situation for all it is worth before leaping... also known as 'looking before you leap' is... necessary.

Is it not?

You know your heart better than anyone. If you don't, you should use EXTREME CAUTION. The Throes of Passion, Lust, Love feelings feel ELECTRIC. Your body should be BURNING with a DESIRE that does not end. For when you connect with someone, it should be intense... not a chore... not a bore... not of the unsure vibe.

When you step out on your FAITH to love again, to lust again it should feel very right. The KEY TO OUR HEARTS is precious... like the heart is. Everyone doesn't deserve the entry and those who slip through the 'caution zone' the same key that opened to them can be closed to them for further enjoyment -elsewhere.

Never be ashamed of giving your heart to someone but always be of the mindset to leave enough they have yet to conquer. When you stay in the midst of all things keeping you from the 'feel good' you do yourself the worse disservice to SELF.

SIGNATURES set you apart from others. Random living has it's moments but when it comes to being random in a 'Love Affair', when it comes to being random in 'Affairs of the Heart' no one with passion wants to associate themselves with being RANDOM. Relationships have always needed those times of excitement from the unexpected. Routines can be the very thing to keep relationships together. The familiar has it's place but too familiar can makes relationships dull. Sure many will say I signed up for familiar because I was ready to stop with the single life of random people.

We're not talking random in that way. Keeping things fresh in your life when it comes to your lover no matter how you define the relationship should be important to you. Signature moments of the unexpected, the spontaneous moments is worth incorporating into your life. The Signature moments don't always have to involve money or along the lines of an extravagant nature. When it is sincere, when it comes from the heart, when it is received in a sincere way, when it received from the heart you both are in a good space, an excellent place in your relationship. Most times it is always the little things that speaks volumes to someone.

Everyone that checks for you... never... ever... are you obligated to check back. When you truly know yourself, those simple conversations with 'coy, flirt, inquisitive questions, smiles' ever present should continue... you are in the mode to see if this is someone you'd like to explore more with. Love... never hard... Connecting... never hard we just make it hard on ourselves - those who find it hard to connect with someone or to fall in love with someone.

Like with any relating... sometimes you find yourself out of sync with that person. Should you do all that you can to see if it will work itself out... of course. When you TRULY know yourself, you WILL KNOW if the relationship has run its course, if seasons have changed. Another WORSE you can do to yourself is to stay with someone because you don't want to break their heart but yours is breaking. Never do a disservice for yourself.

It should never be uncomfortable to have conversations that reflect of how LIFE GOES. One minute we may be ALL IN... then another time we may be ALL OUT... and of course it could be time for the CHILL DOWN, the apart time to just get it all together. The heart... it is always ready for the love and love it should get. Shouldn't it?

Here at THE CONNECTION we will never give you the TOP TEN WAYS but we explore RELATIONSHIPS from a more mature and realistic point of view. Trusting yourself, is the key. Tuning into your INTUITION really tuning into it will have you on the COURSE OF LIFE that gives you more happiness than sadness. The exploration for all things love, lust, the desires to connect with someone good for you in and out of the penetrations that feel so good is what you should set your course of life to. Should you already have the connection, keeping the spice of the relationship flourishing should be important. As we all live, we continue to elevate in one form or another. Hopefully the elevation is of a positive aspect. Denying the heart.... never that. Connected the heart to a deserved spirit... always... Observing for the right connection... definitely this. Find the balance and move forward heart positive.

There are some LOVE AFFAIRS that are too deep for words. Jada Pinkett Smith and Band Wicked Evolution give the listeners BURN. Jada sings passionately the lyrics on how she feels for her husband Will Smith. The haunting chords, the lyrics gives glimpses of how passionate the love truly is. Some people never reach the UTOPIA of LOVE to fully understand, to fully feel how it feels as if LOVE consumes you. The consume is not reckless where you cannot live without the person but that you don't ever want to. Difference.

When you can LIVE without someone yet you don't want to, means positives. You are together for the right reasons, not of desperation or other ulterior motives so many couples of today, of yesterday face/faced. Jada has been with her band formerly known as Wicked Wisdom. Hopefully fans can get another album from them. Until then, we'll be rocking BURN, other songs. Wishing Jada and Will much love and passion in their union, sending good vibes their way.

THE EDGE is in everyone. Some people just show more edge than others.
They tap into their 'truths' and as the saying goes, 'the truth will set you free'.
Nicole Alexander aka 'Hoopz' is a 'wonder' to many people. Though they may not phrase it in such a way, tis true. From her reality show appearances and wins, showing her athleticism, love for the outdoors, fitness, humor, sex appeal, and the lil sumthin sumthin ( we jest ) dating one of the most FAMOUS,TALENTED players to ever hit the NBA Shaquille O'Neal, surviving some scandal moments HOOPZ Nicole Alexander is indeed a 'wonder' to many people. One of the biggest wonder is why would Shaquille date her? It's a BIG wonder to females and males more so the females. Here's our question: Why wouldn't Shaq date Nicole?

For too long women have been scrutinized by their past when they are steady onward with their present, moving further along towards their future. Just as sure as you live fiercely, there will be moments of your life that isn't stellar. For the most part you make no apologies for how you live YOUR LIFE with much EDGE. Too many people try to play the 'ROLE' of who they aren't, y'know that whole
'I would never' role. When you aren't true to you, you lead a life where you have more regrets. Some people cannot handle Adventure In Paradise moments.

One thing I've always liked about Nicole Alexander is her competitive edge, the Ultimate Tom Girl who is sexy, self-assured and in her own words not so 'clingy'. Females have a reputation being the Ultra Femme Chica and that's okay if that is truly who you are. This doesn't always GET THE MAN as some would think when they should just be themselves. If a MAN real MAN likes what is going on with you, then he makes the moves to see what is up. He pursues. I do like how Nicole and Shaq interact with each other when they let us into their lives. Seems like the Ultimate Relationship where thre is sense of humor, competitiveness, getting each
other without harsh judgement and passion is there. HOOPZ did the whole 'Dear Nikki' Q&A with the Boston Globe in 2011. She spoke upon women not being so 'clingy' wish there was more of those Q&A's. In our opinion, Nicole gave true to life answers more than the politically correct answers. Many people have been fed the TOP TEN WAYS to get our various desires. There really aren't any rules for LAWS OF ATTRACTION. This is the whole truth, nothing but the truth. To wonder why someone is with someone is a waste of your time, while they are living their lives - having a good time with EACH OTHER. For however long it lasts it really is good seeing such an outgoing couple where you also see the love and you see Nicole Alexander aka Hoopz still taking on her own business ventures, we love it!